How to Support a Loved One Struggling With Depression
- Moe | Scarlet Plus
- 6 days ago
- 3 min read
Practical Guidance from Adelson Behavioral & Mental Health
Watching someone you care about go through depression can be heartbreaking. You may feel helpless, unsure of what to say, or afraid you’ll make things worse. But your presence and support can make a huge difference—even if you don’t always have the perfect words.
At Adelson Behavioral & Mental Health, we guide families, friends, and partners in learning how to offer support that’s compassionate, respectful, and rooted in understanding. Here’s how you can help someone you love navigate depression—without losing yourself in the process.
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1. Learn What Depression Really Is
Depression isn’t just sadness. It’s a serious medical condition that affects mood, energy, sleep, motivation, and even physical health. Knowing the difference between occasional sadness and clinical depression helps you respond with empathy, not frustration.
Key facts about depression:
🧠 It’s caused by a mix of biological, environmental, and psychological factors
📉 Symptoms include fatigue, hopelessness, and withdrawal
🕒 It often lasts weeks or longer—not just “a bad day”
💬 It can impair concentration, memory, and decision-making
💊 Treatment typically includes therapy, medication, or both (National Institute of Mental Health)
Understanding depression reduces stigma—and reminds your loved one that they’re not alone or to blame.
2. Be Present, Not Pushy
You don’t need to have all the answers. Just being there—listening without judgment and showing consistent care—can be incredibly comforting.
Supportive ways to show up:
🗣 Say, “I’m here for you,” instead of “Cheer up”
🧘 Accept silence—your presence is enough
📱 Send check-in texts without expecting replies
💡 Ask what they need, not what you think they need
🤝 Be patient—healing takes time and isn't linear
At Adelson, we coach families on how to balance patience and presence so that support feels empowering, not overwhelming.
3. Encourage Professional Help—Gently
You can’t force someone to go to therapy or take medication, but you can encourage it with care. If your loved one is resistant, focus on how treatment is about feeling better—not being “fixed.”
Ways to suggest support:
📅 Offer to help find a provider or go to appointments
💬 Say, “You deserve support,” instead of “You need help”
📘 Share trusted resources or personal success stories
🧠 Emphasize that depression is treatable and common
🌱 Validate their fears or doubts without minimizing their experience
According to the National Alliance on Mental Illness, having just one supportive person greatly increases the chances of recovery.
4. Take Care of Yourself, Too
Supporting someone with depression is emotionally demanding. If you’re not caring for your own mental health, you risk burnout, resentment, or compassion fatigue.
Self-care reminders for supporters:
🧍 Set boundaries—it's okay to say no
💬 Talk to a therapist or join a support group
🌿 Make time for hobbies, rest, and movement
📖 Educate yourself, but don’t try to be the therapist
🫂 Ask for help from other family members or professionals
At Adelson Behavioral & Mental Health, we believe that supporting others begins with supporting yourself—you can’t pour from an empty cup.
Conclusion: Understanding the Difference Empowers Better Care
Your love, patience, and steady support can help someone with depression feel seen, valued, and not alone. While you can’t fix it for them, you can walk beside them as they find their way back to hope and healing.
At Adelson Behavioral & Mental Health, we’re here for both individuals and families, offering the tools, resources, and compassion needed to support each other.
👉 Need help supporting someone you love? Contact us today to learn how we can help you both.
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